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Selasa, 11 November 2014

Little Victories

This isn't going to be the prettiest blog post or anything, but if you're like me and you snag an awesome deal somewhere, you probably like to brag about it.  Or at least I do.

After doing a little mini victory dance at the grocery store cash register when my pile of coupons ring in and I skip through the automatic sliding doors, the first thing I do is text my husband with a message usually consisting of something like "Yo yo yo! Guess who has two thumbs and saved $80 on groceries today?  This cheapskate."

I love it!  I feel like I cheated the system.  So the other day when I was gathering up a few supplies at Lowe's for our dining chair makeover, I happened to walk down the lighting aisle to see this little guy:


I loved the vintage inspired milk glass look, and it had a clearance tag on it for $11.24 marked down from $44.97.  Woohoo!

But then I found out the store no longer had them in stock.  Insert pouty face.  

Thankfully, I had a super cute (and at the moment well-behaved) little girl with me who somehow helped me charm the sales guy until he was a total puddle on the floor because twenty minutes later, I had the display light in our super cool racecar cart (for real...why didn't they have those when I was a kid?) marked down even further to $9.00!  

Seriously, that light was just begging me to take it home.


So when I got home, that boring builder grade basic light came right down from our butler's pantry.

I'm on a mission to get rid of all of these in our house.


Blah. No personality. It's just...there.

So now our little coffee/wine bar that connects our dining room and kitchen is sporting my lucky find.


Just so ya know, I'm dying to paint those cabinets white.  One day, it's gonna happen.


You gotta love little victories.  And now our butler's pantry has a bit of something more.  

It's pretty smashing with our rope chandelier too. :)  What do you think?  Better than builder grade? 

Blessings,


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Senin, 29 September 2014

A Ballerina Birthday Party on a Budget

Happy Monday, friends!  I am SO excited to share our weekend events with y'all!  Our little one's 2nd birthday is technically today (how did time get away from us so quickly?!), but we celebrated with our wonderful family and friends Saturday, and it was a beautiful day.

I said in the very beginning of planning this that we weren't going to make it a huge over-the-top event, and what did I do?  I got carried away, as usual.  I won't even deny it; moms throwing parties for their two year olds are totally decorating for the benefit of the people who will appreciate it.  My kid won't remember any of it.  But the great thing is I didn't have to spend a truckload of money to decorate her party.



So here's the decor breakdown:

Sweets table- A thrifted dresser that I madeover for her bedroom.
Curtains- I made these for her bedroom too, which I'll be sharing the tutorial for later on.
Curtain rod- I already owned the rod and spray painted it Rustoleum Heirloom White and hung it with 3M Command Hooks that were just hanging out in our junk drawer.
Banner- Burlap banner made from twine and burlap scraps that I created on a computer printer.
Cupcake stand- A Goodwill find that cost just $3.
2 white pitchers/vases- A thrift store find for $2 that I filled with faux Walmart pink peonies at $2 each.  I already owned the faux white flowers.
Pink scroll chargers- A Goodwill find for $3 each that were originally ceiling medallions. I painted them using Krylon spray paint in Ballet Slipper.  They will be used as wall decor later.
Gumball jar- A repurposed apothecary jar we already had in our bathroom holding cotton balls.
Tutu garland- Twine, clothespins, and tulle bought by my mother-in-law.  Tulle typically costs about $3 per spool.
White cake stand- We already owned this but I made it a year ago for about $5 using a candlestick, dinner plate, spray paint, and super glue.
Pointe shoes- I had in storage from my ballet dancing days in middle/high school.
Lace craft tablecloth- Found with the other plastic tablecloths on the Walmart party aisle for $3.

The entire setup cost me:  $45.00 Crazy, right?! (I didn't count the dresser and curtains since they are being repurposed from Olivia's bedroom.  They will live on for a long time after this party.)



The tutus doubled as favors at the end of the party.


Sweet little party guest Joslyn modeled it for us.  Check out this tutorial to make it!  It took me about 20-30 minutes per tutu and cost $3 each.


We bought cupcakes from the grocery store bakery at less than 50 cents each and simply dropped them into some nicer looking wrappers.


I made the sugar cookies using mostly ingredients we already had.


I had found the gumballs in Target about 2 months ago at 50% off.  And I made the dipped Rice Krispie Treats by just following the traditional recipe, sticking a cake pop stick through them, and dipping them in pink candy melts.


Easy and cheap, and it still looked like it cost a pretty penny.


I love that my old pointe shoes got a change of scenery from the depths of our closet. (Something always told me to hold onto these in case I ever had a girl.  I'm so glad my hoarding self listened to my gut on that one.)


I'm kind of sad we didn't get around to doing our craft activity.  People were ready to eat!  So I nixxed it. And we didn't have as many kids as originally planned.  It was a busy weekend for everyone.  But we used craft supplies we already had. 


I used even more pointe shoes and a Goodwill white pitcher with Walmart flowers for a centerpiece.  We have had the burlap runner on our table for months now, so I used it here too.


 This was the finished product!  I want to frame it in Olivia's room eventually.


I made all of the sweets table signs and craft table sign on PicMonkey.  I just printed them from our computer and they were done!


In case you're wondering, I painted the blue fish bowl for our boy guest to make a handprint goldfish in case he wasn't a fan of the pink tutu craft. ;)


For the favors, I included a tiny plastic tiara, a bottle of bubbles, a small containter of Play-Doh, and a ring pop.  All together, the favor box cost $2 thanks to 4 packs of items from the Dollar Store.

But really, y'all, favors aren't necessary.  If you have to cut costs, get rid of the favors.  I never think about favors at others' parties, and I'm always a bit surprised to get one.  I mean, really?  You fed me and you're giving me more goodies?  You're too generous.


To keep from going broke on food, we held the party from 3:00-5:00 (after little ones' naptimes and between lunch and dinner) so that we wouldn't have to provide a full meal.  We served appetizer foods, and, from what I could tell, everyone was completely satisfied. 

We all devoured the food before I could snap a picture of the spread. It was yummy stuff.  My parents and a few other guests brought a couple of appetizers too.

Here is what we served:
Stuffed Mushrooms (for any vegetarians in the crowd)
Mini Chicken Salad Sandwiches (Using a $4 container of deli chicken salad and a loaf of store brand white bread)
Potato Chips and French Onion Dip (Using store brand again- There is usually no difference between store brand and name brand.)
Veggie Tray with Carrots, Celery, and Cherry Tomatoes with Ranch Dressing
Fruit and Cheese Tray
Cheese Ball with Pita Points

Olivia LOVED every second!  It was so much fun to see the joy on her face the entire day.


Our silly girl now poses for photos. Stop growing up so fast!


Aaaand...after having cupcakes, we went out in the backyard to show her the big birthday present from her grandparents.  Remember the "Mack Daddy" Project?  I don't think her little legs could carry her fast enough.  I'm amazed we were able to keep it a secret for an entire week.


Pure joy.


"Grandaddy" got to do the honors on the slide.


And the bubble machine was a huge hit (which I got in exchange for a store return last week...it wasn't technically free but if it didn't come out of my wallet at the time, it totally counts).  


I'm so happy with how it all turned out.  But even without all of the "froo froo" it was perfect simply having so many of the people we love there to celebrate.  Your toddler will not hold a grudge because you didn't all out decorate for his/her party.  Having around those you love is all that matters in the end. :)


I don't think I'll ever get over how emotional our daughter's birthday will be for me.  It will always be exciting for her, but, for me, I'll never forget that exactly on this day, I first met this sweet little girl who changed my life forever.  



Now, we're off to stuff our faces full of leftover cupcakes and play for hours on end in the rain on the playground!  This post turned out way longer than I had planned.

I hope you take a moment this week to act like a kid again, to dance in your living room, to eat chocolate without thinking about calories, and to count your blessings for what you have.  That's at least what we'll be doing. ;)

Love and hugs,



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Rabu, 17 September 2014

8 Ways to Make the Most of Having No Money for Home Decor

The glass is always half full.  Every cloud has a silver lining.  When life hands you lemons, make lemonade. (Enter any other optimistic cliche you can think of.)

Whether you're the person to greet every day with a smile on your face or not, chances are a lot of us hit those speed bumps in life and money gets tight. After an unexected medical bill or a hit to the rainy day funds, home improvement projects usually end up dead last on the list.  I'm with ya, sister.

Bless'er House - 8 Ways to Make the Most of Having No Money for Home Decor



In June, my husband and I made the decision for me to quit my teaching job to become a stay-at-home-mom and drastically cut our spending.  We're talking strictly bare essentials- gas, groceries, bills.  But I would have done anything to be with our toddler full-time.

So I sorrowfully waved goodbye to any hopes and dreams I had for our home and sobbed over my inspiration boards on Pinterest. (Okay, I'm exaggerating.)  But after strapping down on our spending, I'm so amazed how many strides I've been able to make in our house and I spend next to nothing to do it!  All it took was a little perspective.

The positive side of having no money to decorate is...

1.  It gives you the opportunity to organize.
Whenever we hit a lull in home improvement funds (which is basically all the time), I get the itch to organize what we do have.  (Don't get me wrong. Our house is still pretty disorganized...the battle never ends.) Just because you don't have the money to buy things for your home doesn't mean you can't make improvements.  Cleaning out a closet can cost absolutely nothing.  Creating a filing system for your office is totally free.  And you improve the functionality in your home as well as give yourself peace of mind.  It's like yoga for your brain! Cleansing breath.

Bless'er House - 8 Ways to Make the Most of Having No Money for Home Decor

2.  It encourages you to sell things you no longer use.
It's amazing how much money people usually have lying around their house, usually in the form of furniture or random items just taking up space in their homes.  Don't overlook that old ratty chair in the corner or that musical instrument sitting in your closet that you haven't played since high school.  To give us a cushion for some vacation money over the summer this year, I sold my old (but still very nice) saxophone for $1,000!  (Marching band geeks rock, y'all! Don't hate.) Use Craigslist, eBay, and buy/sell/trade groups to list items on the higher side of its value and be willing to negotiate a bit.

3.  You learn to shop in your own home.
It's amazing what little treasures you'll find you have tucked away in a closet or pushed back on a shelf when funds are tight.  I've discovered decorating with books is one of my favorite things!  We have tons of paperback books sitting on shelves in our office that have already been read and are just taking up space.  I rip off the covers, wrap them in twine, and they instantly look vintage. (My inner-English teacher only slightly cringes at the ripping part.)  Some public libraries will even give you old, discarded books if you ask.

Bless'er House - 8 Ways to Make the Most of Having No Money for Home Decor


4.  You find amazing ways to repurpose anything!
Got an old dome clock?  Turn it into a cloche.  Got a hunk of wood sitting in your garage?  Turn it into a shelf.  Seriously, take a second to search "repurpose" on Pinterest, and you will be amazed at what possibilities are already lying around your house.

Bless'er House - 8 Ways to Make the Most of Having No Money for Home Decor

5.  It forces you to learn new skills (for the better!)
Why pay $100 for a bench when you can make one for $20?  Why hire a contractor to install board and batten in your home when you can do it yourself for $11?  The idea of learning woodworking, carpentry, or electrical work can be scary, but it's so empowering when you can step back from a project and know you made that!  And seeing the numbers add up to how much you saved makes it even more worthwhile.  Learning a new skill is priceless and absolutely worth every penny left in your pocket.

Bless'er House - 8 Ways to Make the Most of Having No Money for Home Decor

6.  You learn how to set priorities on big-impact purchases.
I'd much rather spend $50 on paint that has the power to completely transform an entire room than to spend $50 on something smaller like a throw pillow.  I love love love little decor details but they can add up quickly.  When you do have the money, and you want it to go far, make a purchase that will give you the most bang for your buck.

(P.S. Robert has no idea he is the poster child for this post.)

Bless'er House - 8 Ways to Make the Most of Having No Money for Home Decor

7.  It makes you more aware of "curb alerts".
Two years ago, I wouldn't have given "trash" on the side of the road a second look.  Now, I'm always amazed by the treasures people throw out.  Having a miniscule home decor budget teaches you to keep your eyes peeled.  Craigslist is always full of free merchandise.  A lot of times, people list bigger items for free just so someone will come haul it away for them.  And now thanks to photo texting, you don't usually have to drive across town to check out the castoff.  Landscaping is the same way.  If you're willing to dig up those rose bushes or carry off those brick pavers, they're yours.  And have you seen the gajillion pallet projects out there?  Wood pallets are listed as free for pickup all the time.  Just be sure you're getting the heat treated kind.  If you can't find pallets on the local classifieds, post your search on Facebook.  You'd be amazed how many people you know probably have piles of them lying around at their workplace.  An even bigger plus- it's eco-friendly!

8.  It teaches you careful decision making.  
You have to be absolutely sure you love something once you do manage to save up the dough to purchase that coffee table or curtain fabric.  When we first moved into our house, we had a nice little chunk of money we'd saved to spend on furniture and paint to get us started.  I spent all of about an hour or two making a decision instead of weeks/months like I do now.  And, you know something?  Now that I spend a long time pondering over the decor decision-making as we save up the little bit we have, I find that I love my choices more now than last year when we could buy something on the spot because we had the money on hand.

Bless'er House - 8 Ways to Make the Most of Having No Money for Home Decor

The journey of creating style in your home can be so challenging when it comes to finding the funds, but figuring out how to overcome the challenge can be part of the fun, can't it?

I'd love to hear what other tips you have or projects you have done for design on a $0 budget!

Blessings,



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